I might not be the best person to discuss this. But this few days...we've been talking about this thing that we are so unsure what or how to define it. So, allow me to just refer to that thing as 'feeling'. As human, we have all sort of feelings. Feelings to which some we just ignore. Some other we do acknowledge. And to special some, we do give our special attention to. Only to certain feelings. The one that we rarely feel.
But, why in the world when this special feeling strikes, we feel that we rather not having it? So, we run or we hide or play stupid or do something to that effect? So at the end of the day, this feeling subsides and be gone before we know it. So we hope that we would be free and happy again. But, are we? Frankly speaking, I am not so sure myself.
So dear friends, who are having this symptoms of 'before-I-fall-any-deeper-I-might-just-stop' disease, lets think about this. Can we not just face the 'feeling' and tengok-apa-jadi lepas-tu. OR else, we can just continue ignoring the feeling and act as if nothing happen redha bak kata orang OR we could accept the feeling as it is and put up our you-are-my-bestest-friend-ever behaviour and hope it changes for the better OR go mandi bawah jambatan...ahaha. Its really our call.
Please think and bear this phrase [below] in mind. Cheers.
12 comments:
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look who's talking...
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and u really r my bestest friend ever Radhi! ahahaha
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Ahahahahha giler artis!
sy mengulang maksud di atas tu. harap maklum. kehkehkeh
coward kot
mencik laa laa golongan yg pertama tuh
~'before-I-fall-any-deeper-I-might-just-stop' disease~
xleh ckp coward kot. all is fair in love and war paejah. feel it to believe it. ahaks.
wah zira,
suka entry ko ni. hehe. to say, sebenarnya, ~'before-I-fall-any-deeper-I-might-just-stop' disease~ ni cuma just an option. satu pilihan sama ada kita nak proceed atau tak. kalau stop means kita kene bertanggungjawab dengan perasaan kita. kalau buleh jadi macam biasa then it shud be ok. takde masalah pun. maybe perasaan tu just bertandang utk seketika. tu pun kalau mmg sketika. kalau rasa tu dok lama2 dalam hati dan jiwa raga camne?
tapi kita pun takleh nak salahkan perasaan yg hadir dalam diri. its so unique to be explained.
sprt mana quote yg last part tu ckp, afraid of the response. kalau kite bule jadi back to basic "zero" feeling than its ok.
semangat/courage yg ada tu agak penting. kalau org tanya, penah kene rijek? at least kita kata la ada pengalaman kene rijek. penah...
percayalah, ia tak sepahit dan se-ngeri yang kita sangka. sbb mende camni buleh jadik juga tidak bertepuk sebelah tangan. sbb selagi kita tak cross border "stop" kita takkan tahu. then kite sanggup utk mengorbankan perasaan kita yang ada pada waktu hanya semata2 utk mengatakan "before i fall in any deeper".
takpelah, kalau betul benda ni bukan utk kita, bukan jodoh kita, harapnya apa yang kita korbankan tu benar2 ada hikmah dan rupanya mmg dia bukan yang kita nantikan selama ini. its kinda of siren saying yg "stop=its not him/her"..
all the best!
wah zira,
suka entry ko ni. hehe. to say, sebenarnya, ~'before-I-fall-any-deeper-I-might-just-stop' disease~ ni cuma just an option. satu pilihan sama ada kita nak proceed atau tak. kalau stop means kita kene bertanggungjawab dengan perasaan kita. kalau buleh jadi macam biasa then it shud be ok. takde masalah pun. maybe perasaan tu just bertandang utk seketika. tu pun kalau mmg sketika. kalau rasa tu dok lama2 dalam hati dan jiwa raga camne?
tapi kita pun takleh nak salahkan perasaan yg hadir dalam diri. its so unique to be explained.
sprt mana quote yg last part tu ckp, afraid of the response. kalau kite bule jadi back to basic "zero" feeling than its ok.
semangat/courage yg ada tu agak penting. kalau org tanya, penah kene rijek? at least kita kata la ada pengalaman kene rijek. penah...
percayalah, ia tak sepahit dan se-ngeri yang kita sangka. sbb mende camni buleh jadik juga tidak bertepuk sebelah tangan. sbb selagi kita tak cross border "stop" kita takkan tahu. then kite sanggup utk mengorbankan perasaan kita yang ada pada waktu hanya semata2 utk mengatakan "before i fall in any deeper".
takpelah, kalau betul benda ni bukan utk kita, bukan jodoh kita, harapnya apa yang kita korbankan tu benar2 ada hikmah dan rupanya mmg dia bukan yang kita nantikan selama ini. its kinda of siren saying yg "stop=its not him/her"..
all the best!
saya sgt setujuk ngan kak atie..perasaan mmg xbulih dsalahkan sbb menda tu mmg xblh nak explained..samade dtg kejap ker lama ker menda tu mmg ada..org sk salahkan perasaan ni sbb depa nak cover diri depa if menjd okler if xmenjadi ko ler..pedehal sebenor2nya feeling tu bkn blh dibt2 dia dtg ngan sendirinya..
mmg suma org takut di rijek..tapi if kt x take action camner nak tau samade kt di accept or di rijek kan..
from my kisah chenta..even kt diaccept pd mulanya it might happen at the end kt dirijek dgn alasang2 basi such as kt xde jodoh..mak ada pilihan sendiri..tapi bila dah melibatkan mak kt pun xmo dia jd anak durhaka maka kt pun rela berkurban dgn harapan dia gembira ngan pilihan mak dia..
insyaallah kt pun akhirnya akan gumbira dgn pengorbanan yg kt bt tu sbb lama2 kt sendiri tahu yg dia mmg bkn untuk kt sbb br kt nampak menda2 yg xbest sbb dulu mata dah ditutup sbb kt sk dia..jadik kt pun akan berlapang dada untuk memcari, membina dan menghayati perasaan br yg akan dtg..
jadik sebagai petutupnya mokcik azira if pada bila2 masa perasaan tu ada ko xyah ler sibuk2 nak pikir camner nak buangnya or bt2 mcm xrasa apa2 pun or iyer ker ada? or lain2 excuses yg ko bt tu..HENTIKAN yer..good luck 4 u and ......(ko sendirik isi sapa yg ko nak letak A,B,C or D)..k cau cin cau.
kak atie & gcop: tq 4 d comments. sume betui. tp kadangkala, otak xleh menjana begitu. hehe
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aduiii..lupa lak nk komen, komen ko nih! ahahaha...
kak atie n gcop, saya hargai usaha keras anda. ekekekeke
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