Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Does everybody deserve a second chance?

That was the question i asked myself early this morning, and this question is still lingering in my head.

And then i saw this....A stiff apology is a second insult... The injured party does not want to be compensated because he has been wronged; he wants to be healed because he has been hurt...

Interesting huh? when you hurt somebody, apologize! and let it comes from the purest part of your heart not just because you think its the right thing to do. A real apology surely can heal the broken heart..I'm sure. If both parties are sincere about it. But when you mintak maaf, and still make a fuss out of it. Thats where the problem start.

We can always say, everybody deserves a second chance. Tapi betul ke macam tu? Does everybody deserve a second chance?

NOTE: Aku jarang berpeluang memberi peluang kedua kepada orang, simply because rasanya orang jarang pun buat salah ngan aku. So bila timbul hal-hal macam ni..aku jadi bengong. Tambah lak bila orang tanya, nk jawab macam mana? Nak suruh dia maafkan je, nampak macam kita tk amik berat hati yg dh terluka tu. Nak kata jangan maafkan, dah jadi macam firaun lak kan? Jadinya macam mana?

5 comments:

Shu said...

Sis, nampaknyer Sis rasa sama apa y i rasa...adakah ianya sincere atau just benda yang patowt kena buat? huhuhuhuu...been thinking...heheheh

AxraZa said...

hehe...the sentimen is justtt right buat masa ni. ape patut kita buat? kita je tau. ek?

Jie said...

buat ape yg ko rasa baik untuk ko ngan orang tu...

Radhi Dahlan said...

Macam biasa la Zira... depends! hahahahhha

AxraZa said...

standarddd..sume pun depends! hahaha